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Shared experiences

Stories from our community

Direct experiences with Proxi, followed by reflections on the earlier courses, resources, webinars, and coaching work that helped shape Proximity.

Real people. Real moments.

What Proxi users say

“Holy shit.

The final message gave me chills. A lot of the conversation touched on things John and I had previously discussed and answers I partly knew already. I intentionally gave Proxi a challenge we had talked about before because I wanted to see how its response would compare.

The final conclusion was absolute gold. It felt authentic, really resonated with me, and I especially liked how it clearly separated the reframe from the next step.”

Brad H.Proxi He user

“When I was given the opportunity to try an AI life coach, I was initially skeptical. How well could something like this actually work? After trying Proxi He, however, I found it to be something I would readily recommend.

Proxi He is a practical tool to have available when I need help working through a stressful or anxiety-provoking situation. Sometimes it encourages me to consider a new action or perspective. At other times, it slows things down and gives me space to reflect.

After using it for several months, I’ve found Proxi He especially helpful between scheduled appointments with my therapist. It doesn’t replace my therapist, nor would I expect it to. Instead, it has become a valuable addition to the tools and support I already use.”

Will HiramotoProxi He user

“This AI is genuinely impressive. You should be very proud of what you’ve created.”

Dr. James Bramson

The work that came before Proxi

What people say about John and Joree’s previous work

These testimonials describe experiences with John and Joree’s earlier courses, educational resources, webinars, and coaching work. They are not reviews of Proxi.

“John’s explanation of anger in the opening units was hugely revealing for me. Although I have a master’s degree in special education, I had never examined anger—particularly my own—in such a clear and detailed way.

He describes anger through objective, recognizable behaviors, which helped me better understand what makes me angry and how to manage those feelings. I found the material enormously helpful, and I’m very grateful.”

Gail R.Anger-management course participant

“I incorporated John’s information and advice into my life and found greater balance and peace of mind as I moved forward. I am deeply grateful. I have recommended his website to others and will continue to do so.”

Anita R.John’s previous educational guidance

“John introduced me to several techniques that have helped me create a calmer life. One of the most meaningful has been practicing compassionate thoughts in the presence of someone who is angry or confrontational. It helps me remain grounded and changes how I participate in difficult interactions.

I continue to use several of the tools John taught me, and they have made a meaningful difference in my life.”

Dr. Dragos AnghelJohn’s previous educational guidance

“John’s Ultimate Anger Management Course gave me practical tools for responding more mindfully when anger arises. Since taking the course, my anger has become less intense and less frequent, and I feel happier overall.”

Tyrone W.Ultimate Anger Management Course participant

“When I started John’s anger-management course, I was hesitant because I didn’t believe I had an anger problem. As I worked through the lessons, I learned practical ways to pause, breathe, become aware of what was happening, and think before responding.

During a painful conversation, I was able to listen, examine what had happened, and respond without escalating the situation. The course has helped me grow and manage difficult moments more effectively.”

TyAnger-management course participant

“This has made a tremendous difference in my life. My outlook is much more positive and friendly. My wife and children now refer to me as ‘the New Sherm.’”

ShermParticipant in John’s previous educational work

“Since I started reading John’s book, I’ve developed more patience and don’t become upset as easily. It helped me respond more calmly during a stressful period in my life.”

ChrisReader of John’s previous work

“John’s free information helped me recognize that my biggest challenge wasn’t simply anger—it was how much attention I gave to the negative parts of my life and how that affected the people I love. The videos gave me a new way to understand my positive and negative thought patterns.”

Justin A.Viewer of John’s free educational videos

“Since beginning John’s 90-day course, I’ve noticed some amazing changes in myself. I feel healthier, I received a promotion at work, and I’ve finally begun developing the online business plans I’ve had for years. Thank you—and please keep the inspiration coming.”

Jeremy Gard90-day course participant · Brisbane, Australia

“I was amazed that someone so young could offer so much wisdom. John’s work is grounded in spirituality, the language of the soul, and common sense. I always look forward to his articles, and words are not enough to express my appreciation for what he shares.”

Rafael ZunigaReader of John’s articles and educational work

“John’s work gave me new tools to use in daily life. Through his book, Guide to Self, I learned practical ways to respond more mindfully when anger arises.”

BillGuide to Self reader

“I’m not sure how I stumbled upon the Surviving to Thriving webinar, but I’m so glad I did. I was only on day two, and I was already absolutely loving it. It arrived at exactly the right time for that season of my life. Thank you for making it available.”

John EliSurviving to Thriving participant